Be yourself...

Hi, how are you all? I hope every body is fine and healthier ...I had such a wonderfull weekend, it was so exciting and so much fun :)
I went to the Global Village again !! oh my , I can't get bored of it, I also went to the cinema and I saw a movie called “ Death Sentence” it was nice but i hate the ending..
I hope all of you had a good and useful weekend…

I always hear the sentence” Be yourself!!” and a question rise in my mind:” why should I be myself?” the answer pops so quickly , because each individual is created to be unique and Allah give him/her a special soul to make a difference.

I tried for years to be myself but I couldn’t until 2004 I became a totally different person, it is not easy to be yourself especially if you grow up shy and lonely. This personality depends on their parents and lives in their own fancy world, also this person feel he is being himself but this is wrong.
To be yourself in my opinion is to be with people, that because they will judge you depend on your own actions and speech (Always be honest with yourself that will make you honest and clear with others ), also they will help you if you are wrong and guide you if you loose the track (if they are of course good friends and people). In this way fill your life with nice , decent and clean open-minded people.

I Believe that our religion wants us to be ourselves when it urges us to pray , have good and decent manners ,treat people nicely and politelyand be successful in our life.
How strange?! Sometimes people be themselves and become so arrogant that they forget their own creator and think they are better “aste’3fer Allah”.

Sometimea a person want to be like someone else, and that true each boy or a girl want to be a copy of their parents or uncles or aunts and sometime it is there by itself because of the genetic attributes that built in our inheritance genes :).

I know a person that imitates and copy a particular actor and behave and even wear the way he do, this is not so strange because if you are not happy with what you are then you try to be someone else. It is ok to copy others but not the bad and rude ones, don’t be a malformed copy which reflects others wrong direction in life…

Be yourself by being a good muslim , citizen , nicer , good mannered , interesting , unique by adding value to your work or study and in your home, also be more creative , leave a fingerprint behind you after you die that everyone in the world will track and investigate and learn from it.

Remember,
If you cannot be a poet, be the poem.
~David Carradine , I love that :)

P.S. I would like to say that my friend “ kytheria “made me crazy when she wrote about the Maya’s café in Bahrain , oh I want to be there now :), Thank you dear for the introduction …love you

See these websites they are so useful
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Yourself
http://www.quotegarden.com/be-self.html

Take care and be near to Allah..

P.S. Only for you... I Love you ...